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[sessifet]

As all of you know by now, I moved to the UK in December last year. From the start, I was very much aware of the differences between UK and NL. I was quite certain some, if not most, would cause confusion, annoyance and bewilderment. I had, however, hoped I would be able to settle and find my space eventually. I was vaguely confident I would enjoy myself. I had hoped for 'I think I'll stay a bit longer.'. I had hoped that I would like it.

I was wrong.

I love it.

Despite the differences, the annoyances, the confusion and bewilderment, I love it, and it's not just due to having two wonderful housemates, or having other shiny people close by. These things help, I admit, but they're not the main reason.

I can't tell you what the reason is. I've no idea, but I still love being here. It's both more and less than my hopes and dreams. It feels like something fell into place when I came here. Some small piece that was waiting to be slotted into place. I can honestly say that I'm happier and more content right now than I have been for a very long time, and I can see myself staying here for a while longer.* I've started looking for my own place in this general area, and I'm looking to buy a cheap car. I'm actually looking forward to building my life here.

Sure, I miss my family. I miss my friends. I miss not being able to jump on a train and being on their doorstep in a few hours. I miss stroopwafels and fairly inexpensive public transport. I miss liquorice and being able to nip over the border to Germany for nice beer. I miss Groningen. I miss being able to see for miles and miles. I miss being 10 minutes away from the sea.

I miss all these things and more, and still I am happy.

* Some bits of me are violently disagreeing. I would suggest these bits stop complaining or I'll be forced to withhold nice things.

Comments

[novawildstar.livejournal.com]

I know exactly what you mean. I felt the same way when I first moved here and still feel that way now. I'd never want to move back home.

[da-pol.livejournal.com]

I miss being able to see for miles and miles. I miss being 10 minutes away from the sea.

Oh - if that's a problem I have an *idea* *grins*

[pewterfish.livejournal.com]

It doesn't, by any chance, involve massive ordnance, does it? Because you know how that usually turns out...

[jester-uk.livejournal.com]

East Anglia's flat. Is that what you were thinking?
Or was it up to the top of a mountain/hill near the coast and driving down *very* fast?

[swaldman.livejournal.com]

I'm contemplating getting rid of my car - don't need it in London. Ask me about it at the weekend if we may be able to be of mutual assistance ;-)

[sessifet25.livejournal.com]

Oooh. Will do :)

[ciciaye.livejournal.com]

I'm glad you like being in the UK :-)

CCA

[perdita-x.livejournal.com]

You know missy.. We should really meet up soon! Then again I really could do with seeing your housemates too (only seen them once since they moved up here!)..

[sessifet25.livejournal.com]

There is a definite maybe on attending your meet, so you may see me soon. :)

[perdita-x.livejournal.com]

so I hear! *bounce*

[cat63.livejournal.com]

I miss stroopwafels

They have those (well mini ones anyway) in my local Budgens - the manufacturer is Daelman. Not sure how well they'd survive the post, but I can try sending you some if you like?

My email is carol at wrhpv dot com